How To Make Progress in Your Career and Life

By Shazad

Having progress or forward momentum in life is what makes life interesting as well as giving us purpose. That feeling of being stuck or standing still for many days without progress can make a person seriously ill as well as non-productive. I’m going to offer some ideas on how to move forward and keep moving forward every year.

Step 1 is to Increase your awareness of the industry you work in and learn the industry vocabulary as much as you can. Learn new terms, phrases and ideas every month by reading your industry blogs, newsletters and articles.

Step 2 is to Design your work using a specific and detailed career plan. This helps to make sure you are heading in direction you intended through your daily and weekly work. Write out your ideal next level in your career or business.  Describe in detail what your daily routine would be, what your expected income will be and how you would feel during the day.  You should list your top 3 responsibilities in this next level role and what you will be contributing to society when you reach this higher level.

Step 3 is to Review your career development plan.  Revise or confirm your plan as needed with more detail or refine it to take out any unnecessary parts. Check your current actions, beliefs and habits to make sure they align with what you are aiming for. If they do not align,  adjust to get back on track to achieve your ideal future state.

That’s it. Just 3 steps to become more aware, develop a forward moving plan and then executing on that plan every day. The goal is to keep creating and achieving higher quality plans in life and not stopping once you have achieved the immediate next level plan. This is how you keep making progress and keep growing in life.

Start a New Year in September

By Shazad

In my opinion, it feels like a new year every September!  Young and older students are heading back to school while others are headed back to full-time work after some vacation time.  The weather usually starts to change  and everyone seems to be focussed on achievement again.

This is perfect time to review your goals and renew your pledge to achieve them.  Perhaps you want to start new goals in September and get a head start on next year by marking this month as your New Years moment.  Everything around you is offering motivation for doing so and it's not likely to be any easier on January 1. Use this energy to make changes and become better.  Make this month your time to start or re-start something great and Live Awesome!

When the Coachable Student is ready, the Teacher appears

In business and in life, there are teaching moments worth noting. This is especially true in the beginning when you are starting something new and may feel you are not able to do anything right. It can be frustrating time for anyone starting a job or a new business but it’s normal to go through the pain.  You should have some more senior people around you can coach you and you should listen to them!

You will receive useful guidance on how to address problems as well as follow through on important tasks.  You will, no doubt, make some mistakes along the way which is expected and you will get feedback quickly about your mistakes - listen to it!  That feedback is valuable coaching for you to listen to and understand and then act on.  Make sure you understand what went wrong and then follow the coaching you are getting for improvement. This will make your progress at work a lot faster and your productivity that much better.  Remember, it's not personal criticism and we all need good coaches in our lives to get to the next level.

Managers and Business people are not looking for “Perfect” people to work with but they are looking for coachable people that will listen and learn.  If you become one of these people from the very start and then remain coachable throughout your working life, you will always have opportunities to advance and succeed.

Why You Need to Think Big to Be Happy

By Ahsan

Have you ever been hit with the blues? Have you ever lost a bit of that pep in your step or just felt a bit aimless? Contrast that with how you feel when you are preparing for a big occasion, like a night out with friends or attending a wedding. Usually, the feeling is one of being engaged, focused and generally happy. When we are feeling off, it is usually because we are thinking about things in the past and ruminating over a “I wish I had…” thoughts or we are looking at the present and feeling bored.

It is in the future that we begin to see ourselves in motion and start feeling engaged, focussed and happier. In other words, when you are feeling blue and with nothing to do, pivot your thoughts to a bigger future.

What does this mean? A bigger future is all about challenging yourself to be, do or have something that represents growth and change from your current situation. It could mean pursuing higher education, it could mean becoming fitter and stronger, it could mean adding one hundred thousand dollars to your present investments by working on your earning abilities.

Why does this work as a way for getting out of a funk? It’s simple isn’t it? You become engaged in planning how you will build your bigger future, you get focussed on the doing and action steps and habits and all the while, compared to being in Bluesville, you change your address to happy town.

Action Steps:

1. Sit down with yourself and or a good friend and brainstorm something that you want for your future. Here we mean a “be”, “do”, or “have” type desire.

2. Repeat step one another two times so you have three things in front of you.

3. Now that you have the three things to contemplate, imagine yourself accomplishing your bigger future.

4. Note and internally capture that feeling.

5. Get working on the one you intuitively feel most excited about.

6. Keep the other two handy so you can begin on them when you know the time is right.

There you go. Don’t stay in first gear, get going by seeing a bigger future for yourself and multiply your happiness.

Live Awesome, Not Average!

Too many people in this world spend their life trying to fit in and become average.  Nothing could be worse for your health and well-being since the average person is overweight, in debt and unhappy with life.  if you aim for the middle of the pack, you will get their lifestyle - some good and some bad. If you instead look for ways to live like the best people with the best habits and health, you are pursuing something worthwhile that will make you a better person.

So how can you do this?  Look at where you stand today and where you want to be.  What kind of lifestyle, emotions and outcomes do you want to experience?  Do you think being mediocre or middle of the pack will get you results? It's clearly not going to work so try something different. Be bolder, wiser and break free from the masses.  Do the things that few people are doing and get great results in terms of health, happiness and quality of life.  Don't eat, spend and waste time like most people do unless you want your life to become the border line existence between sickness and health, or happiness and depression.  Why not seek to have a fulfilling life where each day gives you the opportunity to thrive and be happy and healthy.  Wealth comes along with a better lifestyle and focus on self improvement.   Lasting peace of mind and deeper spiritual connection are also possible when you live according to your full potential in life.

To be Awesome and maintain this kind of life, you have to be able to see where you are and what it takes to reach that higher level in your own life.  Only when you stop being average and commit to a better life will you be able to Live Awesome. So what are you waiting for?

How To Communicate Like A Master

By Ahsan

It has been said that many people communicate however very few connect.

If you think about your best friend and how they talk to you, you might begin to get an instant feeling of happiness and calm. Your best friend is your best friend because of them winning a special place in your heart. Others may be good friends of yours, however, your best friend has a deep connection with you.  The feeling of connection is what makes your relationship with your friend special and deep.

What if you could have this level of connection with your friends, friends, spouse, children, colleauges, managers, and clients? What if you could communicate and achieve the deep level of connection with them as you do with your best friend? How much would this skill improve your life?

If you are all in and want to learn this art and skill, let’s begin. The framework is based on simple and often overlooked common sense.

Firstly, you might like to begin with the mindset of winning people over and being a person who is a source of happiness and value to others. In other words, create the conditions for such a relationship. After all, we have a relationship with everyone we meet, even if it is a brief encounter with a barista who pours your coffee or a person down on his luck, that you decided to give a few dollars to. Make it count. Make it a connection that is felt by the other person. Try at least by being aware of the whole idea of not just communicating but connecting. The concept of communi-connection is a new word that you can add to your dictionary.

The idea of connection with a person is not something to be taken lightly and it might not be for you. To really connect when you communicate will take on the verbal aspect and non-verbal aspect of communication. Some of you may feel uncomfortable giving of yourself in this way. Interesting language I am using…I know. I say giving of yourself because all this, is a sort of devotion. If you are devoted to someone, you are quite invested in making sure that there is a connection, a true relationship. You will not take the art of communication lightly if you really care. Be devoted and think of your words as being an arrangement of not just words but a bouquet of flowers.

Now you might like to put on the charm when you talk to others as a spot of good measure. How charming are you? To be charming all you have to do is develop a habit of complimenting people when you interact with them. An encounter with your friend could be enhanced by telling them how much you appreciate the time they spent with you. A date with your spouse could begin by letting them know how good their outfit looks. Even a teaching opportunity to an employee or child could be started with a compliment of what they do well and a short and sweet suggestion to improve the thing that you want them to. There are other ways to be charming too, feel free to think of other ways.

Lastly, and perhaps most importantly, and especially on Mondays…make your connection deep.

Here, I am referring to the surface level chats we have with people on a Monday that starts with, “how was your weekend”? This is better than nothing but if that is all you end up doing with others when you meet them, you may miss the chance to connect. So, how do you go deeper? Let’s say your co-worker says they had a busy weekend and spent time volunteering at the food bank. If you say that’s cool and switch over to topics like the weather, you earn five points for at least caring to ask about their weekend. However, if you were to segue into a follow up question like, how did you get interested in doing that? You will get into a deeper level of knowing them. It is in knowing someone that you connect.

Your best friend knows you and that is why you feel connected to them. Be interested in others with no other motive than to pass through this life with the mindset of being of value to others and asking a question or two about what they say to you. Don’t just communicate…lots of people do that. Be that uncommon person that not only communicates but connects, and sometimes deeply, with devotion, as deep as the Pacific Ocean.

What's Your Brand?

By Shazad

Apple, Disney and Starbucks have one.  Canada and various countries have their own brands as do individuals like athletes and celebrities. Every successful product, service, person or nation was built around a brand.  All have shaped their image into a brand that they intentionally work on.  You also need to develop your brand whether you work in a job or your own business.  You are creating a public image whether you realize it or not. People around you are watching and making judgement about you all the time. They are estimating what you believe and what you stand for so why not actively create your brand instead of leaving it up to others to guess?

It starts with your daily habits and the quality of work you do.  You will become known for the outcomes you produce but also the way you handle the process of getting things done.  How you treat people around you and what your relationship is with management all define your brand.  What you say when relaxed and also under pressure is what people will remember so be mindful of your behaviour.  Self awareness and being honest with yourself is key.

The best way to be understood and have a clear message about what you stand for is to actively work on this.  It will never be perfect but it will be something that you can start from as a foundation.  Do you want to be known as a punctual, hard working and cheerful man? Become that way every day so it's what everyone sees about you.  Would you like to be recognized as a life-long learner who is also a good listener and takes care of her health? Become that person and it will be your brand.  Do the things that you want to define you and they become parts of your brand.

Don't leave it up to others to define you or misunderstand what you are about. Be consistent with your beliefs and your actions so they match. Take hold of your personal brand today and share it with the world. Make it Awesome!

What Should You Do If You Fail A Test?

By Ahsan

Little Johnny is sitting at his desk writing a test. His test is a straight forward spelling test. He needs to spell 20 words related to his recent study unit on government.
The test comes back and out of the 20 words, he ends up getting seven right and thirteen wrong. He goes home with his head down and shows the piece of paper to his mother. She remarks, “hey Johnny, you got seven right, look at what you can do, all you need to do now is go and work on those other thirteen”.

The moral of the story is that most people focus on what they cannot do and what they haven’t achieved. This type of approach to life cannot lead to success and happiness. A more empowering and effective way to approach things is to become focussed on what you can do and work on the things you need to do.

Some people become deflated when they fail a test or don’t get something they want in life. Some people become deflated and defeated! How unfortunate is a setback that becomes a shattered self-image?
If you think about things like Johnny’s mother does, how much better would your life be? Could you be more successful and happy?

No Tribal Membership Required

By Shazad

Do you have to be Hindu or a born in India to practice Yoga and derive it's benefits?  Do you need to be a trained chef or food critic to enjoy a delicious meal at a fancy restaurant?  How about getting healthy and strong without a Nutrition degree or certification as Personal Trainer?

It used to be that special skills and cultural practices were handed down in very strict way for a limited number of people belonging to the same culture or tribe as the teacher.  Formal lines of training and years of practice were needed to advance even small amounts in a given practice...if the master thought you were worthy.  Potential students from another tribe were often shunned and in some cases, even forbidden from knowing about certain skills!  There were secret societies and private clubs of people who only discussed things with peers of the same social status.

Today's world allows us much more freedom and opportunity to explore all kinds of teachings belonging to other cultures and nations. We can dabble in things to see if we like it or, we can get fully immersed in foreign practices [to everyone but Chinese people] like Kung Fu despite having no Chinese ancestry and decades of training at a Shaolin temple.  Modern technology, an abundance of willing teachers, sincere effort and a passion to learn new things is all we really need! It's easier than ever to grasp just about any new skill so why not try something new?

Anyone, anywhere can explore anything without "official" membership credentials. The colour of your skin, your age, the place you were born or your gender don't really matter any more.  New 'tribes' of people are being created based on interest, achievement level and passion for a given skill or practice. Sometimes you don't even have to leave the comfort of your own home to learn something new but we strongly recommend you do for maximum enjoyment and experience.

So figure out what new skill or practice you want to know something about and get to work!  You may find a new calling in life or just an enjoyable hobby that makes you a better human being. Doesn't matter what race you are or what your college major was...you can still learn anything!  Find the experts in the field you are interested in and let the learning begin! It's that easy...and no membership required so what are you waiting for?

Why Can't i Be You?

By Ahsan

Have you ever wished that you could be someone else? When you look at your life, your career, your physical traits or mental abilities or just plain old circumstances, have you not thought this way?

This has got to be one of the most common thoughts that strikes us from time to time.

But Why Do We Have These Thoughts?

We know that this is probably not a good thing to do but yet we do it. We do it for one primary reason, we all yearn to be happy. Sometimes we look at our situation in comparison to someone else and think we would be so much happier if we were in their shoes. To be happy is one of our strongest desires in life. And as you know, the grass is not always greener on the other side. If we want to be happy, we need to find a way to be happy given the situation we have now, even if it seems tough to do so.

Let us remind ourselves that our thoughts influence our feelings. If you want to feel happy, then think happy thoughts. We should not do the opposite, which is to think thoughts that bring you feelings of misery. In summary, you can choose to be happy and joyful or miserable and blue.

So how do you do sow and cultivate personal happiness?

1. Stop comparing yourself to others. If someone seems to have a better life than you, wish them well and silence the voice of envy. Now you are being kind to yourself.

2. If at all possible, and it should be…why not think about what you wish you had and work out a plan to achieve it! Now you are being proactive.

3. Spend some time every day where you take a time out for yourself and think about three things that you are grateful for. Be the most grateful person you know. Now you are becoming more self-aware.

Whatever your scenario happens to be, focus on what is good in your life and by doing so, harvest the crop of happiness and do away with the weeds of misery.

Be the Awesome Change you want to see in the world

By Shazad

I see many issues in the world and I wish things were different. Noticing the problems and wishing things were better is not going to work.  So what does?

First, not adding to the problems by doing my part to make things better.  If I want more justice and peace in the world, I need to live my own life in a way that promotes these values. I   can’t want one thing but live a different way.

Second, I need to take care of my own health so I’m not a burden to the healthcare system.  This means mind, body and soul needs regular maintenance and improvement.  Better habits performed daily will achieve the results.

Third, I can encourage everyone around me to live their best lives by doing their part.  Small changes to behaviour, lifestyle and mindset will help everyone to live better by adding up all the positive changes.

There you have it. Be consistent with what kind of world you want to live in and don’t be a hypocrite. You’ll know when you are living according to your beliefs when you see the world getting a little more awesome each day. Make it happen!

The ONE virtue that will multiply your prosperity

By Ahsan

There are many virtues and characteristics that come to mind. One should be truthful, or dependable, or courageous, or likeable. Honestly, the virtue that I am thinking about is none of these. If I am being honest, I should reveal this one virtue quickly because it is so powerful that it continually ripples in a vast ocean of prosperity that is boundless.

This virtue is honesty. If you are honest, the whole world will love you. On the other hand, if you are crooked, no one will want to have anything to do with you. You are done. Finished.

The world is in search of an honest person who fulfills her obligations to her fellow human beings.

In fact, prosperity for an honest person is assured if not guaranteed. People are drawn to truthful people who are honest. People lean on dependable people who are honest. People seek refuge with people who are courageous and are honest. And, people love people who are honest.

Your personal reputation is the sum total of all your actions and how you conduct those actions with honesty. Keep striving in this way. Add the resolute element of honesty in all the other virtues that you display. The world will open its arms to you and open many doors for you. The more honest you are the more prosperous you will be.

Slow Down and Go Fast

By Shazad

"Fasting is the first principle of medicine; fast and see the strength of the spirit reveal itself. " + Rumi

The holy month of Ramadhan has started and practicing Muslims everywhere have been fasting for a few days now.  This blessed month and this ancient practice reminds us to focus on what is important, what really matters and what sacrifice feels like.  

In a typical day, we are usually going so fast and trying to get so much done that we forget to pay attention to living.  By observing fasting during Ramadhan and periodically throughout the year, we can stop and reflect at different times of the day.  We get a chance to withdraw from all unnecessary things to focus on the essentials.  Every time I experience Ramadhan, I feel stronger and more self aware. I often feel that I can do anything I put my focus on because I've seen how capable I am after giving up food and drink for many hours each day.  

There are physical and spiritual benefits to Fasting as you can imagine. There are also mental benefits to withdrawing from the constant buzz and chatter of the world.  It let's me listen to my inner voice and it can do the same for you without having to become a hermit or shunning modern technology.

3 Exercises to Consider:

1. Make a list of your daily activities during weekdays and weekends so you know how you currently spend your time.

2. How many things on your list are things you must do vs. what others tell you should be doing? Spend at least one week just focussed on doing the things that you must do and give up everything else.  What things are just entertainment or time waisting things that you don't really enjoy?

3. Rate how your experience on how you feel after doing just the necessary things and refine your daily tasks so that is how you spend your days from now on.
 

Spring - The Real Beginning of the Year

by Shazad

"The day the Lord created hope was probably the same day he created Spring." + Bernard Williams

I love Spring and I know the calendar says January 1 is the official start of the year but for me, Spring time is the beginning.  Everywhere you look, things are coming to life again after the long hard winter. There is an incredible feeling in the air that reminds me of a new beginning and new possibilities.

The flowers, trees and grass all become fuller and come to life again.  Every week brings more growth and lushness to the landscape. This can be a metaphor for our lives.  Small but consistent growth every day is how we can grow and thrive as well, regardless of what our 'winter state' was.  Why not use this time as inspiration and re-commit to your goals?  Let the beauty of this season inspire you to also grow to a fuller and better version of yourself.

3 Exercises to guide you:

1. Review what you pledged to do or become on January 1 and evaluate your progress so far. 

2. Measure your progress towards your goals each day to make sure you are headed in the right direction. Change direction if you are not.

3. Never lose hope for personal growth at any time of the year. There is no neutral position in life - we are always capable of growth so keep growing!

The 4 Remedies For Awesome Living

By Shazad 

We live in a world fully of doctors, diseases and giant pharmaceuticals companies.  Sometimes it is hard to know how to take care of yourself as you age.  Sometimes it’s just to complicated to be healthy or live an optimal life with excitement and energy.  

Try these 4 remedies the next time you feel down and see how powerful they can be in terms of making you feel good.  First,  get some direct sunlight early in the morning. Let it shine on your hands and face and enjoy its warmth.  Repeat around midday for extra Vitamin D boost. Second,  drink some water before you have breakfast.  Revive yourself with every sip as you hydrate.  Third, practice some deep breathing in and out.  Try 5 deep breaths in and and out in a large room or outdoors or in whatever space you are in.  Feel yourself becoming energized with each deep breath. Do this deep breathing exercise at night just before bed as well. Fourth,  go for a brisk walk outside and really notice your surroundings.  See the plants and animals and greet people as you walk. Connect with your whole body  so that feel your legs and core muscles as you take each step.  Notice how your hands, chest and neck move in harmony with your lower body.  Walk for longer and longer distances by doing a little longer walk each day.  You can easily work up to 3km distance each day without feeling any tiredness.

Try these 4 remedies each day and you may feel the best you ever have in a long time!  Give it a try!  You just may eliminate the need for any medication while you boost your health one breath at a time.

Why Do We Work?

By Shazad

Why do we go to a job or run a business?  Many people will say it's because we need to pay the bills, use our skills or keep busy.  Let's take a deeper look and find more meaning in the question as well as our personal answers.

No doubt, we all need to earn some income to pay for food, shelter, clothing and other things we want and need.  But this can't fully explain why we work 5 or more days each week, often by leaving the comfort of home and enduring some inconvenience during travel to and from the location of our work.  What would you rather be doing if you didn't have to go to work? Would you still be fulfilled in life if you could just stay home and not have to worry about paying for basic things like the necessities of life?

If you don't have the option to stay at home, how can you find more meaning in the activity of going to work?  Have you tried seeing all the other people you work with as a team you work with to accomplish some common goals?  Consider how your work relationships have impacted your life and your growth as a person.  The friendships and business relationships that can last after you leave a job or business to go to another job or business.

Here are some steps to figure out what work means to you:

1. If you didn't have to go to work at a job or your business, what would you rather be doing?

2. What does your ideal day of work look like and have you ever tried to achieve this by intentional actions?

3. What are the benefits of your work life that you can list based on your experience? 

How Easy Is It To Be Successful?

By Ahsan

I recently had a conversation with a good friend of mine. We have helped each other out over the years with words of encouragement and positive ideas. I asked him how his business was going? He told me confidently, that things were really shaping up and looking up.

I wanted to pass on to him my own encouragement and told him that he should be proud of himself for getting back up on the horse and starting over again. You see, my friend had a previous business that folded. What I wanted to point out was that he should celebrate his courage and tenacity because the majority of people often stay down when they are knocked down. In fact, a lot of people minimize the importance of their achievements and dwell heavily on their shortcomings.

My friend took my words and made his own interpretation of my comment and started to explain his mindset. I am glad he did.  

He told me that he kept saying to himself “Do or don’t, there is no in between”. He said he had to pick himself up again and go out and meet people, ask for business and keep his payroll going.  Every day, he kept reminding himself “Do or don’t, there is no in between”. This simple motto gave him the stamina he needed to take action and keep up his momentum with urgency.

Another thing he said was that it is easy to build a successful business and it is easy to make lots of money in your business. The reason why is because we live in a time where opportunities, resources and ideas are plentiful. He said that he has never been more convinced of his capabilities and sense of purpose. Our conversation wrapped up on that note.

What do you think? Does my friends’ motto resonate with you?

Here is my take: success is yours for the taking if you do three things.

1. Have a clear vision of what you want your life to look like.

2. Determine what you need to do to make it happen.

3. Take action. Take a punch to the gut now and then. And keep on taking action with momentum and urgency.

Friends, it will always be so. You do your part or you don’t…there is no in between.

When You Change This, You Change Your Life!

By Ahsan

Many people talk about the famous Roger Bannister who in 1954 ran one mile in under four minutes. Conventional opinion was that it was humanly impossible to do so and would cause a heart to perhaps explode! Mr. Bannister must have believed he could do it and must have cast aside any previous limiting beliefs he may have held. He accomplished what his belief was aligned with.

Similarly, your deepest held beliefs shape the direction of your life. Some of your beliefs like those about your capabilities and your self-concept can be based on limiting beliefs and even false beliefs.

Awareness is the ally that is needed for change to happen. Study yourself and prepare the path of living a life of greater possibility. Find out who you are. Having self-awareness is a prerequisite skill so that you can identify things you can improve in yourself.

False beliefs can shape your habits and your reality. Out of habit, you do or don’t do things based on your beliefs. After examining them through the lens of self-awareness and where you picked up these beliefs (parents, school, media, friends) you can begin the process of discarding them. You could be unduly influenced by deeply ingrained beliefs that someone else etched in your mind.

Not all of your beliefs are wrong of course, keep that in mind too. Just keep that mind of yours open to the possibility that some of your beliefs could be holding you back. Be self-aware enough to re-examine those particular beliefs.

Examine your beliefs: are they true and where did they come from? Who implanted them in your mind? How do your beliefs control you? How do your beliefs impact the results you produce in your day to day affairs?

Who do you want to be and are you that person? If there is a disconnect, it might be because your beliefs are limiting and false.

How Do You Change Your Beliefs and Mindset?

Now that you are thoroughly convinced that your beliefs and mindset are to be credited with the results you see in life; how do you change them? That’s simple.  You reprogram yourself. You need to delete the old program and install the new program that aligns with the results you seek. Installing new beliefs takes time and effort and will require that you also develop new routines, habits, systems, and affirmations. The good news is that you can change your mindset.

Your beliefs (mindset) needs to be standing on a firm and correct foundation. This mindset is a precursor of success. Your mindset (beliefs) will determine your results in life; both personal and professional. Your happiness and your progress are all wrapped up in this concept of empowering beliefs and mindset. Your self-esteem is born out of it and so is your self-image.

The stronger your self-esteem and self-image becomes, the more awesome your life will be.

How important is your mindset?

It has been said, “First you form your beliefs and then your beliefs form you!”

Please reread this statement and think about that for two minutes.

Are you back?

Your mindset is your most valuable asset; more valuable than your real estate holdings, your investment portfolio and your stores of gold.

Let’s get a move on it. Life is passing you by. In order to take yourself to the next level of your awesome life, you might like to focus on what you want and identify your obstacles. Take personal responsibility for the results you are getting.

How?

Change your mindset. And take action. And then take some more action.

Limiting beliefs or broken mindset will keep you from taking action. You literally have to give a speech to become a public speaker, you literally have to ask for the sale to create business, you actually have to avoid junk food to create a slimmer body.

Reprogram your mindset and take action, so that you are firmly on the path of personal growth.

Life brings all of us a knock down and if anyone says otherwise, they are not being truthful. However, get back up and move your mind and beliefs towards what you want, you must not stay stuck in the wrong mindset. It will shackle you at the legs, arms and neck. Yikes!

Adopt a strategy; take action; give yourself praise, take some more action; commit to the process and the next step will reveal itself.

Why Do Some People Fail at Success?

By Ahsan

One of the amazing things about being you is that you do not have to do anything you don’t want to do.

Read that opening sentence again.

It’s true, isn’t it?

No one can make you do anything!

In other words, you are the captain of your own ship and if you don’t want to leave the harbour, you can stay anchored.

How does this control of your actions relate to failing at success? Quite simply, it is all a matter of your MINDSET. If your mindset is one of determination to not do something, you end up not doing it.

The good news, is that when your mindset is positive and geared to doing something you want to do, you start getting results. If success is about getting results and moving forward on your goal, then having the right mindset is not only key, it’s the five-tonne propeller that your ship uses to leave the harbour.

When you embark on achieving your goals and are looking for success you might like to start with your mindset first.

Here are five tips that will make a huge difference to the quality of your mindset:

1. Assess the major reason you want to be successful?

2. Think of a time that you achieved a goal (however small) and recall that feeling of achievement.

3. Spend time after waking up to think about achieving your goal and spend time just before nodding off to sleep to do more of the same. (this is actually self-hypnosis). You may also add in a prayer.

4. Be kind to yourself and view any set back as feedback and not failure.

5. Be willing to do the work. Be determined and committed. Fast results take time.

Dear friend, nothing worth having will be given to you. You will likely have to work for it. And if you maintain an unshakeable and focused mindset, you will succeed where others fail.

Success is largely a by-product of having a positive mindset!

Healthy Attitudes for 2018

By Shazad

I was listening to an inspiring podcast one morning and wanted to share 3 key points I think we should all consider when resolving to live a healthier life this year.

1. Meet your body where it is instead of wishing it was some other way.  Exercise in a way that helps improve your health starting where you are today.  Move forward every day because small changes done consistently will result in big changes.

2. Eat right and exercise because you LOVE yourself instead of hating your body.  Do the right things out of Love and respect for your health because you want better quality of life. You have uniqueness and different fitness goals than other people so focus on what YOU need for next 10-50 years. You will get better and faster results that work for you even if they are not what someone else wants for themselves.

3. Honestly connect with your own healthy and unhealthy habits.  Make stronger connections to the good things out of Love. If you have to hate something,  make it those unhealthy habits keeping you stuck.  You can break free from them if you associate enough pain with those nasty habits and high octane positive feelings with the good habits. The “secret” to better and lasting health is more healthy habits performed every single day with sincere passion for becoming a better you!

Get Strong and Live Awesome!